Our first trip to a swingers club

With a rare opportunity to escape on a Saturday night, Kathleen and I tried to make several different plans.  Eventually, we decided to go to the local swingers club and meet a couple we had met on Swappernet.  We first heard about this club while sitting in the hot tub on our vacation, and our curiosity had been piqued ever since.  We received a message from this couple the other day, asking us to meet with them, and when they mentioned they were planning to go to the club on Saturday night, all of our plans fell into place rather nicely.

We arrived at the club at around 9:00, and only a few couples had arrived.  We sat at the bar, undoubtedly looking like a pair of nervous newbies, and simply took in the scenery, trying to get a feel for the place.  Kathleen had dressed in her sexiest outfit: tight, black "skinny" jeans, high heels, and a low-cut blouse.  She looked absolutely stunning, and I had no doubt that she would be a popular girl this night.

The club holds various theme nights each week, and the theme of this night was "men's dress shirt" night.  Women eventually filtered into the club wearing nothing but their husband's dress shirt over a bra and panties.  As the night wore on, the buttons on those shirts (including Kathleen's) eventually came unbuttoned, and some of the bras eventually came off.  It was exhilarating just being in that atmosphere, where people were so free to express themselves sexually, and as the night wore on, the sexual energy of the place only intensified.

At around 10:00, we recognized the couple we had met online dancing together.  We introduced ourselves and found a table with four chairs nearby.  More often than not, you know immediately whether there is a sexual connection.  Unfortunately with this couple, we knew instantly that the connection just wasn't there.  As we sat around a small table with them, sharing casual chit-chat about the usual topics of conversation (where are you from, how long have you been in the lifestyle, how did you get into it, etc.), it became uncomfortable knowing that we would eventually need to find a way to break away from this couple.

After chatting for awhile (interrupted by long stretches of uncomfortable silence), they asked us to dance, and we complied.  Kathleen danced with the husband, while I danced with the wife.  She was an older woman with a soft body, and dancing with her reminded me of dancing with my aunt at a wedding.  Needless to say, it wasn't an arousing visual.  She tried to lock eyes with me, but I merely smiled politely and kept looking over at Kathleen, who was shooting daggers at me from her eyes.  She obviously wasn't enjoying her dance partner, either.

It only became more uncomfortable from there, as the song changed, and the husband flipped Kathleen around and danced with her front-to-back, grinding his erection into her while fondling her tits.  The wife then flipped around as well, and stood face-to-face with Kathleen, making a female sandwich.  If we had been with a more alluring couple, it would have been an incredibly erotic experience.  But as it was, we simply closed our eyes and made the best of it.  For a few moments, it seemed as though Kathleen was enjoying herself, and it got me a bit excited watching her.

But when the song ended, and the husband and wife headed off to the bar, Kathleen and I basically looked at each other and said, "How do we get out of this?"  Neither of us has ever been good at rejecting people, and we saw no way out of this situation that didn't involve hurting their feelings.  But if there's no attraction between two couples, then there's no attraction.  We're all adults, and we all understand how difficult it is to find sexual chemistry between two people -- never mind four.

Instead of confronting them with the harsh truth, Kathleen and I took the admittedly chickenshit way out.  We eventually found an excuse to break away from them, and simply never returned.  At the end of the night, the husband and wife came up to us, and we thanked them for meeting us.  I'm not sure if that was the best way to handle it, but that was the least uncomfortable way to deal with it that we could devise.  Eventually, I guess we'll get better at it.

The night wasn't a complete loss, as Kathleen and I enjoyed some very intense one-on-one time in the club, dancing and making out amongst all the other couples.  It was just nice to be in such a sexually-charged atmosphere with so many other like-minded couples.  And the mere fact that a possibility of being with another couple existed was enough to sustain us.  It has been many, many years since either of us went out to a club with the possibility of hooking up with someone new.  That potential alone is incredibly exciting, and we can't wait for that potential to become a reality.  We just need to find the right couple.  Hopefully, on the 23rd.